Thursday, May 31, 2012

Not a "Standard Issue" Wife

Xandar makes me smile everyday, but the best days are the ones where I am shown as an atypical wife. Every Marine out there has heard, or has, a story about the crazy significant other who was completely focused on themselves. 

On the whole, I don't think I am that different from any of the other wives I am around. What might set me apart is my particular skills set, which many of my friends have commented resembles a 1950's housewife more than an educated 21st century woman. You know what? I am content because I have a little of column A and B. There is very little that I do which is natural talent, its all just years of practice. 

How can you be a "Non-Standard Issue" Wife too? I am always learning and trying new things. I don't have a fixed work schedule I help and take care of my husband - and his Marines. Find the balance in life. Do stuff for you, but don't forget to do stuff for him too. Roll with the punches. Chances are that Hubby doesn't like the new situation either, but when we complain about what they can't change it only makes them feel worse. Tailor this a bit to who you are as a person- they married you not a cardboard cut out.

Next time: Quick and Easy Guacamole